Archive for February, 2010

Lessons Learned From A Former Slave

Monday, February 15th, 2010

by Samuel L. Brown, MSW

As a young boy growing up in the forties and fifties, storytelling was a common way for older folks to teach younger children different lessons about life and morals. One of the most popular storytelling or fables that adults and school teachers often referred to was Aesop.

While growing up, I didn’t know very much about Aesop except the fact that most stories were frequently prefaced by Aesop’s Fables. As a young boy not knowing that a fable was the same as storytelling, I thought his name was Aesop Fable. Before grade school, I recalled Daddy telling me several stories as his way of teaching me how to examine both sides of an issue.

Once when I was feeling unsure about my athletic ability to compete with a playmate, Daddy told me the story about the “Rabbit and the Turtle.” He described in his own vernacular how the turtle won a race against the over confident rabbit. The rabbit was so sure he could out run the turtle, he took a nap before finishing the race, and when he awakens, the turtle had won the race, because he refused to give up. At least, that was the way Daddy told me the story. According to the recorded version, it was one of Aesop’s Fables, The Tortoise and the Hare, told slightly differently, but just as effective. (more…)

Are You A Lover or Player?

Thursday, February 11th, 2010

by Samuel L. Brown, MSW

What does your sex life reveal about your relationship and personality? Are you a lover or a player? Valentine’s Day is a day to celebrate love, but what does it mean for people who confuse love and love making or having sex. 

Amid the flowers, candy, perfume, poems, and love songs, there also exists the sad reality of many struggling through the anxiety of romance and heartbreak. (more…)

Do You Need Pruning?

Tuesday, February 2nd, 2010

by Deborah Brown

We are one month into a New Year and numerous folks have already experimented with their New Year’s resolution. However, with regards to resolutions, one word comes to  mind: pruning. The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language defines pruning as “To cut off or remove dead or living parts or branches of (a plant, shrub, or tree) to improve shape or growth.”

I love gardening and have a hibiscus plant in my backyard. Each winter, after it has been hit by frost, its lush green leaves and hearty branches would wither and turn brown. So each spring, I would prune away the dead branches to encourage new growth. It would grow taller, stronger, and produce more vibrant red blooms than the previous year.

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